

Another incident happened when we went to open a checking account. When we explained that we wanted a checking account that both of us could use, it caused quite a stir! First they tried to open an account with checks which required that we both sign every check. We explained that what we wanted was a joint account where Annette could write her own checks in any amount any time she wished. The young man behind the counter assumed that I (Mike) did not understand what I was asking. (my Spanish was still pretty basic) The bank employee called me aside and began to earnestly explain to me that with this type of account my wife, Annette, could write checks, withdraw money from the account and that she would have full privileges over the account. He went on to say she would know how much money was in the account and that I would not be able to control her spending! This was comical to us because Annette has always done our finances and has always done a great job. The one thing that I still do not understand about the incident was when they explained that one of the negatives would be that she could EVEN deposit funds into my account. I thought about that then, as I still do now, and wonder--do a lot of people just randomly deposit unwanted funds into other peoples' accounts? If they did, would that bother me? We got the account open, but only after 3 or 4 more trips to the bank. I knew for months that I was the talk of the bank employees, because I was the poor gringo that did not know what I was getting myself into.
We must make up our minds not to let the lines or bureaucracy take away our joy. Remember that we are not being singled out, but that this is just the "pan de cada día". The sooner we accept this reality, the sooner we will assimilate into the culture where we live and work. With acceptance of this reality, our stress levels will go down allowing us to see what God has to show us, or better yet allow Him to make us into what He wants us to become!
Remember the recent paperwork at the Embassy, Annette and I returned on the correct day, bright and early. We felt proud of ourselves because we had arrived early enough to be the second ones in the long line that was forming outside of the gate. We were proudly given passage into the gated area of the Consulate to "finish" the paperwork. A very nice lady waited on us, charged us the correct amount of money for the paperwork, and we thought we had conquered the job...when she politely told us that we could return on Friday morning to any of the three windows to receive the processed documents...OH WELL
Hang in there in these days of change. God is still in control.
Grace,
Mike and Annette